We have a secret in our culture...

and it's not that birth is painful. It's that women are strong. - Laura Stavoe Harm

Comfort Measures

Comfort Measures in labor:

(Henci Goer)

  Environment: Create your birth space
-- dim lights, candles
-- peaceful surroundings, symbolic items
-- privacy
-- warmth
-- music – For different moods, not just enya! Make mixed CD’s.

 Physical:
-- walking
-- pelvic rocking
-- positioning pillows for comfort
-- slow dancing with partner
-- sitting on birth ball and swaying
-- lifting up the abdomen
      

Touch:
-- massage
-- stroking
-- cuddling
-- counter pressure against lower back
-- acupressure

 Heat:
-- deep tub bath
-- shower
-- heated rice sock on groin or back

Cold:
-- ice packs on lower back
-- cool cloth to wipe face

Cognitive:
-- visualization
-- affirmation
-- focusing on the breath
-- structured breathing patterns
-- non-focused awareness (paying attention to everything you see, hear, feel, smell without focusing on any)
-- prayer

 Aromatherapy – smell different essential oils ahead of time

 Vocalizing: moaning and groaning

 Labor companion: The continuous presence of an experienced woman can reduce the use of pain medication in general and epidurals in particular.

        

How does this feel? Preparing the partner to offer different things, so that the mother doesn’t have to think. Likes and dislikes.

 

Not: What do you think about a bath?  “I don’t know”.

 

Yes: I have a bath for you. Why don’t your get in for awhile if you want to.

 

Talk ahead of times and likes and wants so that you don’t offer something she dislikes.